How to deal with a self centered, unfaithful and alcoholic husband?

Deal with the alcohol first and ignore the under-30 ignorant responses you'll get here.



Talk to a professional rehab counselor who can get help for your husband. Believe me, I have much experience in this field.



The alcohol is a response to his own self-hatred and anger and it will come out as misplaced and on you.



You must deal with this, this is the key. All of it is connected, but the professionals will tell you and so will I: The alcohol is never the problem: what makes a person want to drink is.



Being self-centered and unfaithful also spring from this.



Take action, don't wait, don't enable, don't make excuses, don't feel sorry for yourself. Just act.



JeffHow to deal with a self centered, unfaithful and alcoholic husband?
Bye , see you in court .How to deal with a self centered, unfaithful and alcoholic husband?
get booting

his no good a$$

out

the door
Sounds like you don't have a lot of affection left for him. Is there a reason you think the marriage is NOT over? Because just from that statement, it seems pretty obvious that you should leave. Self centered, unfaithful, and alcoholic could easily develop into abusive, if it hasn't already.
tell him you want a divorce, then do it!
His stuff on the curb. Or yours in a suitcase as you head out the door, whichever works.
LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!! Get counseling to get the strength to leave and to get back your self-esteem and feelings of self-worth. He sure doesn't care about you, nor does he care about honoring you as a partner/wife. Don't sit around hoping he will change. These guys NEVER change. Trust me!
Three strikes...He's out!!!
Leave the dude. Life is tooooo short to put up with such bullsh@t!!!! Nothing is worth getting trampled on. Be strong pack his **** and get him the hell out.

You will be much happier with a guy that will be faithful and love you back. Wouldnt it be a sad life, to live like you dont mean it?
If you love him, give him one more chance to go to marriage counseling. This is probably the only way you can save your marriage. If he is not willing to go or does not change with counseling, I think the best thing to do is to leave. I'm all about second chances, but only if there is a second chance to be had.
Leave. For any of the above reasons, but most especially for the unfaithful and alcholic part. Life's too short for stuff like that.
Lady you need counseling. I mean would it actually be better if he were a caring, faithful, crackhead. He isn't the one with the problem, you are. He have no reasons to leave but you have plenty. So stop blaming all your problems with yourself on him.
one simple word: DIVORCE
put his bags on the curb and don't think you can change him.
why do you need to put up with him? why do you need him? leave him and dont look back!!he is worthless and isnt sober half the time, he wants other women then let him have them and hopefully he might get a a disease and his pecker will fall off, you dont want to catch whatever he is getting. good luck.
I had an unfaithful husband and it tore me up to the point I wanted to die, I loved him so much I fininally made the choice to divorce, I still love him very much you can never change him either live with it or leave let no one make that choice for you please let your heart tell you what is right good luck
just leave, find someone who will treat you like a lady, and move on.
dump his *** divorce him start a new life
Kick him out,and if's a difficult thing to make happen,pack up and leave,get a good lawyer,file for divorce,get your divorce and move on,find yourself in a better life and enjoy it,You deserve it.
Just take a long, hard look at him through your rear-view mirror.