How to deal with an dr. jekel and ms.hyde alcoholic spouse?

I love him very much, and he loves me very much that i am sure of, we have 2 kids a 5 year old and a 6 month old baby. When he's not drunk he is so loveing and considerate.

The PROBLUM: He cant go a day without drinking,

he normally drinks wiskey, he will go to the liquer store every day after work and get at the least 3 shots.

witch dosen't get him drunk but it keeps it in his system.

At least 1-3 times a week he will get hammered. Then he treats me like **** he's never hit me or anything but he's very verbaly abusive.

Then he'll wake up the next day like nothing ever happend and it's like he dont remember what a jack *** he was. But i still remember. and it's building up.

i dont want to leave him it's not really much of an option.

ANY TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS?How to deal with an dr. jekel and ms.hyde alcoholic spouse?
Intervention for him - if you want to stay with him - but only if he sobers up...



OR



Divorce.



In the interim you need to get yourself to some Al-anon meetings for family members of alcoholics - it may help you get yourself in order.How to deal with an dr. jekel and ms.hyde alcoholic spouse?
You need to call your local Alcoholics Anonymous and find a support group. He has a real problem and unless you act now you will end up miserable. It is not a long journey from verbal abuse to physical abuse. You and your children need protection from Mr. Hyde. Do this as soon as possible.
He sounds like a gem! you deserve each other. I wouldn't change a thing.