How can my girlfriend deal with her crazy dad?

My girlfriend and I have a baby together. She's 17 and she lives with her dad and the baby lives with her too. Well for a while her dad was ok and now he's just a complete d*ck wad. He drinks all the time and the other night he called our child a mistake (don't get me wrong. We DEFINITELY should have waited until we were older, for sure but she's not a mistake) and then tries to act like he loves her to death.



Well the stuff that we have bought for the baby that won't fit in her room she leaves in the living room for the baby to play with later. He's started complaining about that and calling her b**** and whore and all this other junk. He complains about the house not being clean but him and his lazy *** wife just sit there and make the house dirty and don't bother cleaning anything. He expects her to clean everything and do everything domestic wise such as wash dishes, do laundry, clean the house, clean the bathroom, etc etc.



He's just putting her through hell right now and I was wondering if there was anything I could tell her that'll help her deal with her crazy, alcoholic dad.



Thanks.How can my girlfriend deal with her crazy dad?
Where do you live, child?

You are a child if you don't work and support yourself and your family.



You don't understand. She (and YOU) have broken the hearts of her parents. They are terribly upset. Aren't you? Is this the life you and she planned or did you just not think to plan at all?



When young people choose to have a sexual relationship, there are often serious consequences. You heard about that but didn't pay enough attention - or did you think ';It can't happen to us';?



The most important thing now is the welfare of the child. Clearly, if anyone thought you could be a contributing asset to him/her, you would have been invited to live with them.



I believe you should stop bitching about her family (who did not have to give her and the child a home), and start thinking about growing up and doing something productive and meaningful for the child, if not the mother.



Frankly, I might take to drink if my young daughter came home pregnant with a child by a child (which you clearly are).



Grow up. And do it real quick.



You all need counseling.How can my girlfriend deal with her crazy dad?
You sound like an irresponsible two year old kid. She is dad precious baby and you banged her up. What do you expect from him. You didn't even get married? I feel angry just reading your story, I can imagine how he feels. Some day you will understand, but for now just go and suck your thumb for a while.


Ooops!



Maybe she could move in with you?



You would get to see your baby alot more as well



Good luck!
So my dad isn't crazy like that but he is in a different way. this is what i think you should do. you both are almost of age and you have a child to think about. as that baby's dad you need to strat saving up so when you turn of age you can help your child and g/f get away from all that. its not healthy in any way shape or form and it sure as H*** is not ok to allow him to treat her that way. she needs to understand that things can change but you both need to know its not going to be easy at first its going to be very hard and you both are going to have to go without alot at first but let me tell you it is so worth it in the end. you can be happy and if you love your girlfriend you will do whatever it takes to make her happy and right now that looks like you need to save up find a place to live and get them out of that house!