Sunday, December 11, 2011

Help???? i don't know how????

my best friend is a great mom to her 6,2,and 4 month old... well the problem is the father of the 4 month old they are together and she has some mood swing but it is tolerable... well he up and leaves and doesn't call for days and he doesn't call to check up on the baby either while he is gone... she has some mental issues she is a bipolar manaic and she has severe anxiety... the problem is that her doctor hasn't got her on the right meds he keeps switching her well the thing is her main thing is that before she had the baby she was a real bad alcoholic...so she deals with that to...but the question is how do i help her out??? im here for her and that and i help her out as much as i can, when she don't feel good i take care of her infant... but i want to help more but i don't know what to do?????Help???? i don't know how????
You sound like a good friend. Take your friend to another doctor, because a doctor shouldnt be switching meds like that with his patient. Talk to your friend about the guy, if she doesnt want to be with him, tell her to take him to court so he could pay for child support. You just being there helping here out is great help. Just be there for her in her time of need.Help???? i don't know how????
go over and check on her and maybe stay a few nights over to make sure the kids and her are ok
Unless you can help her get to the doctor for her appointments, it sounds like your doing a lot for her. She needs to seek and receive the help she needs from a professional. Keep being there for her, and keep being a good friend. Just having someone to talk to that she can trust will be more help then you'll ever know.
Talk to her about her meds and help her understand she needs to be firm with her dr. Even go with her, if you need to. As far as the man goes, help her realize he is not worth the trouble. If you think she is going on a manic, see if she will let you have the kids and maybe even invite her to stay with you a couple of days. I hope this helps.
Be as supportive to her as possible, makes sure she takes her meds and keeps her appointments. She needs to tell her doctor that the meds aren't right as soon as possible but keep doing what your are doing it helps.
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